"This is exactly the reason why people like me get put off posting here"
You just don't get it, do you? I really would like to ask you to look at your 14 posts - it's almost everything about complaining and insinuating. Do you think that this adds something valuable to this forum?
Nobody - including me - wants to put off somebody from this place; far from it - the more, the merrier! But it would be nice if you could add something else apart from nagging - and I'm sure you CAN do that!
So I'm looking forward to some nice thread opened by you - I'll be one of the first to answer!
No offense and best wishes!